Story By MsBelleSugar

1. High and Lows  A wonderful thing about the twenties is that, in many ways, it's a time of trial and error. You can still get away with dyeing your hair green or learning something new just because you feel like it. The twenties are a decade of first times, but on the downside, with every new start it seems like you're saying goodbye to something else. Because of this, the twenties are also characterized by loss, whether it's losing your first job or first love. You're also expected to move out, away from your family and childhood friends, and suddenly it feels like your're treading water, not quite knowing where to go next.  When you suffer from depression, that treading-water moment seems to last forever. Sometimes, when the depression is especially strong, all you seem to want to do is give in to the water and sink to the bottom.  2. Pressure and Isolation There's a tremendous amount of pressure put on you when you're in the twenties or mid twe...

Being single doesn’t necessarily mean there’s something wrong with you. We live in a society where we are pressured to talk about relationships and actively pursue them. I’m not here to bash marriage or relationships. If you’re reading this, you probably already know the benefits of bonding and forming healthy connections. I am here to tell you why being single is badass and explain why it’s becoming a commonly adopted lifestyle choice. 1. You can do what you want. Seriously, do whatever the hell you want. You answer to no one but yourself. Feel like taking an impromptu trip to Spain? Book it. Want to binge-watch the new season of “Orange is the New Black?” Clear your schedule, and hit the couch. You run the show. You’re not bound morally or contractually to check in, refer to or run anything past anyone in your personal life. You can work long hours if you wish, start your own business (or multiple businesses) and forge your own destiny. Being singl...

The picture above , my beautiful mother . Blessed enough to have 3 mother , ( the second one is one the picture as the picture was taken at my uncle's house ). The one on the left is the third mama , the right is my first mama . In case you get any confused , I am adopted by 3 beautiful soul whom are not married and hoping to have a child by their side till the day GOD bring them to the house of GOD. I am Eurasian ( Half Chinese , Half Portuguese ) , kinda have no clue who my biological parents because the family that found me when I was a child, was not the family that gave birth to me. Either ways , God have showers so much blessings upon me, he blessed me with beautiful mother that never ceased to put a smile on my face. Let me tell you a story about my mother.  The beautiful soul on the left, Agatha Ng, my beautiful 3rd Mother, the youngest sister among the 2 sister. She have a very strong believe and faith in the Lord Almighty. The bright orange shiny rosary have neve...