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Every workplace has them -- the negative, nagging, mean-spirited or super-competitive people who make your work life hell. Learn how to deal with toxic people in the workplace without risking your own success.  You know what I am talking about!  That nitpicking, mean, negative, rude, gossipy, conniving, or otherwise toxic person you just can't seem to escape at work.  He or she is at your desk constantly. You have to sit through meetings with him or her. He or she hovers in the lunchroom. The stench of his or her criticisms wafts through the workplace, threatening to permeate your own work, if you aren't careful.  In fact, you are pretty sure he or she is working against you behind your back.  Or worse, he or she is outright combative.  You can't escape these people -- they're part of your everyday routine. Toxic people may undermine, they may sabotage, but whatever their insidious actions and motives, they definitely have...

Young woman often get tired of the let down that comes from dating men their age. There are many fleeting, career-minded gents who are simply looking to have a little fun until they are ready to have a genuine relationship. Although society generally accepts the younger woman/older man duo, these relationships can be taboo. But what do we do when men our age are constantly letting us down? If you're tired of waiting around for a "good guy", you might want to explore another age group: the older man. Here are 10 things you can expect from these ripe gents:  He Know He Is:  You will know who he is and what he wants right from the get go. He knows what he likes and doesn't like, but he is open minded enough to go with the flow. His ease and confidence will be a breathe of fresh air.  He Doesn't Mind The Bush:  Goodbye shaving, waxing and plucking. Older men grew up in a different generation when the bush was sexy. He'll go down on you without que...

Many of us have grown up dreaming of the wonderful feelings of romantic love and wait expectantly to fall in love. Movies and love songs have a way of stirring up that longing in us. People in love seem so joyful and alive and we yearn for that in our lives too.  Those who are in relationships or marriages for a couple of years now, do have partners or spouses in their lives that they love and care for deeply. So where are those magical heady feelings of love? That's the first shocker -- contrary to all the stories we've seen -- love is not just a feeling  What is LOVE ? Many of us mistake love to be only a feeling. Let’s take a moment to think about our own experience of feelings. We’ve all experienced feelings of attraction – these feelings go up and down – here one moment, gone the next! Which can be confusing and painful. If we confuse love with a feeling, we may find ourselves asking questions such as: “How could I love someone I didn’t really know so ...

"To be betrayed, the person must first experienced trust in the betrayer. When they do hurt us, we then have the awareness that this other person has the capacity to hurt us "  It is bad enough when a stranger or foe betrays you, but when it is someone you believed to be a close or trusted friend, partner or spouse, it is especially hurtful. It might feel like you were taken advantage of, deceived, humiliated, despised, cheated, or stabbed in the back. Oftentimes it comes as a surprise. That is why it is so painful. You would not expect to be hurt so badly from someone you thought you could trust. So you are left in disbelief and unbelievable pain.  Anyone who has experienced betrayal in a relationship knows how difficult it is to recover from such an experience. The person you thought you could trust and count on is no longer the person you believed them to be. So you wonder what happened. Were just wrong about them all along or did something change? Maybe your re...

1. High and Lows  A wonderful thing about the twenties is that, in many ways, it's a time of trial and error. You can still get away with dyeing your hair green or learning something new just because you feel like it. The twenties are a decade of first times, but on the downside, with every new start it seems like you're saying goodbye to something else. Because of this, the twenties are also characterized by loss, whether it's losing your first job or first love. You're also expected to move out, away from your family and childhood friends, and suddenly it feels like your're treading water, not quite knowing where to go next.  When you suffer from depression, that treading-water moment seems to last forever. Sometimes, when the depression is especially strong, all you seem to want to do is give in to the water and sink to the bottom.  2. Pressure and Isolation There's a tremendous amount of pressure put on you when you're in the twenties or mid twe...

Being single doesn’t necessarily mean there’s something wrong with you. We live in a society where we are pressured to talk about relationships and actively pursue them. I’m not here to bash marriage or relationships. If you’re reading this, you probably already know the benefits of bonding and forming healthy connections. I am here to tell you why being single is badass and explain why it’s becoming a commonly adopted lifestyle choice. 1. You can do what you want. Seriously, do whatever the hell you want. You answer to no one but yourself. Feel like taking an impromptu trip to Spain? Book it. Want to binge-watch the new season of “Orange is the New Black?” Clear your schedule, and hit the couch. You run the show. You’re not bound morally or contractually to check in, refer to or run anything past anyone in your personal life. You can work long hours if you wish, start your own business (or multiple businesses) and forge your own destiny. Being singl...

The picture above , my beautiful mother . Blessed enough to have 3 mother , ( the second one is one the picture as the picture was taken at my uncle's house ). The one on the left is the third mama , the right is my first mama . In case you get any confused , I am adopted by 3 beautiful soul whom are not married and hoping to have a child by their side till the day GOD bring them to the house of GOD. I am Eurasian ( Half Chinese , Half Portuguese ) , kinda have no clue who my biological parents because the family that found me when I was a child, was not the family that gave birth to me. Either ways , God have showers so much blessings upon me, he blessed me with beautiful mother that never ceased to put a smile on my face. Let me tell you a story about my mother.  The beautiful soul on the left, Agatha Ng, my beautiful 3rd Mother, the youngest sister among the 2 sister. She have a very strong believe and faith in the Lord Almighty. The bright orange shiny rosary have neve...