Letting Go of Toxic Relationships

Hola amigas y amigos .. It's been a while! A huge lesson I've learned in the past 2 years is how to let go of toxic relationship. Before anybody jumps to any (incorrect) conclusions, I'm not writing some thinly veiled post about anyone here. Now for the good stuff: In the past year, I've had to draw a firm line in the sand when it came to a few relationships ( just 2 to be precise ) in my life that were extremely toxic. Both are pretty long term ( One locally, the other one is LDR ). The things these relationships all had in common were that they had become a huge energy and soul - suck that had gotten in the way of my preserving energy for myself , they were not at all fun to be a part of anymore, and most importantly : the people involved had decided on one or more truths about our relationship or about me that I was unwilling to agree with. A big thing I've learned in the past years, is that the only person who can make you feel anything important about...